Women wonder why men like anal sex. Heterosexual men enjoy anal sex. Anal sex is not limited to homosexual relationships. Your partner is hinting around and you aren’t ready. You want to know more about anal sex and why guys like it. Having a conversation about it can become uncomfortable. Guys and anal sex is still a taboo conversation. What’s a girl to do?
Start to Understand the Instincts
Men have natural sexual instincts that are sometimes hard to put into words. Women have a much easier time explaining what they like and why. Think about the carnal nature of males. Males of most species typically have a natural instinct to explore and dominate their partner. Men, like women, are territorial about their mate and want to demonstrate their affections.
The dominance of men is central to understanding the sexual instincts of men. Their natural instinct is to conquer, explore, and dominate. Women are the ones who draw boundaries while men push those boundaries as far as a female will let them. This is a natural aspect of human sexuality and not a negative aspect. It only becomes negative when men do not accept ‘no’ and then it’s not only a problem, it’s criminal.
The Nature of Male Dominance
The nature of male dominance has centuries of history and research that help us understand the desires of men. Women have a dominant side as well. Women express their dominance in different ways. Jealousy is the ugly side of dominance in a relationship. Natural ‘good’ dominance is welcome. Negative ‘bad’ dominance is unwelcome and can become a problem. The dominance that is unwanted may be considered criminal. Having a conversation matters.
Understanding the proper way to handle situations like jealousy is an important issue to address in any relationship. When dominance turns to ownership the negativity creeps into the relationship jealousy tends to appear. Jealousy is a warning sign and should lead to both a conversation and a re-evaluation of the relationship.
Healthy Male Dominance
Healthy sexual dominance is not jealous but rather it is kind and loving. Understanding the healthy nature of male dominance starts with understanding it is only ‘good’ dominance when the female is offering herself and willing. In fact, it is the willingness of the female to allow the male to dominate her that is the most arousing and the appropriate way to think about male sexual dominance.
In healthy relationships, male dominance is displayed appropriately. The masculine nature of male dominance is sexually stimulating to females. They enjoy the fun of power struggle that comes with healthy sexual interaction. As men push to explore further sexually women sometimes wonder about the desires of men. Guys and anal sex is an age-old mystery to many women.
Women wonder why straight guys want anal sex. The fact is that they have many reasons. Dominance is just one motivator. Conquering sexual exploits are considered part of the male’s natural instincts. Often their list of sexual exploits includes anal sex. Straight men do enjoy anal sex. They enjoy the dominance, conquest, and the satisfaction of curiosity.
Anal Sex and Vaginal Sex Feel Completely Different
Many straight men confess they do not put anal sex on the top of their sexual desires list. Men love oral sex and vaginal sex. However, on occasion, a straight man has a desire for anal sex. Sometimes, they don’t understand why they want it. Asking questions is the quickest way to ruin the moment. If you’re not ready, simply tell your partner, “maybe we’ll try that next time” and get some information about anal sex.
For obvious reasons, some people think anal sex is gross. However, the pleasure that some people receive from anal sex is unique. It is sex and sex feels good. Anal sex is a different type of pleasure. Sometimes, alcohol plays a role in sexual experimentation. Having a few drinks with your partner opens you up to try new things. The “I can’t believe that just happened” thoughts and feelings after amazing sex is one way to create lasting memories.
New Relationships and New Experiences
Besides the male instincts that develop naturally during sexual interactions, the psychology of it plays a role. As new relationships develop and sexual experimentation continues between partners the natural instinct to explore occurs. The thrill of sexual freedom when boundaries are set aside is exciting for both partners.
Men are used to women with limits. The boundaries defined between two sexual partners is a negotiation. However, when a male finds a partner who is open to a no limits sexual experience the thrill excites both partners. An open and no limits sexual relationship is the unicorn of all relationships. A fantasy many men and women consider but don’t act out.
Offerings of Sexual Pleasures
Women who offer themselves to their partners completely are often mistaken as having no control. The fact is that women actually have all the control. Women decide what is and is not off limits in the bedroom. Women decide what they are willing to do and with whom. The excitement of a woman offering herself to a man completely is an act of trust. Rather than giving up control she is simply acknowledging her power and embarrassing it.
For men who have never had a woman offer her complete self with no limits, the experience can be overwhelming and extremely memorable. When a woman allows a man to explore all of his fantasies she gets the extreme pleasure of being teased and pleased by an adventurous and excited partner.
Safety First and then Teamwork
The most important part of exploring anal sex is taking safety measures. Guys and anal sex are enjoyable when properly educated. The risk of injury from anal sex means it’s important to understand what to do and how to do it before you begin. Find more information about safe sex here on Bunny Cam.