Amazing Blowjob Techniques for Best Oral Sex of His Life

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So, you’ve been looking for the best blowjob techniques on the internet and so far, nothing new has come up? Yes, while there are surely a few amazing blowjob moves and techniques out there if you’ve been in the game for a while, chances are, you managed to master quite a few of them. And now, it’s time to up your game.

We get it.

You want to please your man with something else. You want to make him shake and shiver while you’re having him your mouth.

Before we give you what you’re looking for, you should know, that different blowjob techniques have different fans, so take it into account, that your partner may not like some of them. Sure, a few great and advanced blowjob moves will definitely leave him mind-blown, but to be on the safe side, don’t jump full-blown into it, make sure to ease him in, whenever you want to try something new (after all, men are creatures of habit, you know).

Anyway, we don’t want to waste any more words neither your precious time. We bring you a few amazing blowjob techniques along with a few handy tips that will blow his mind (pun intended).

INTRODUCTION

Before we get down to business, there are a few things you should know. Whether you’re a seasoned pro looking for a few new moves or a complete newbie, you should know that men really like blowjobs. Like, REALLY.

The other thing is, you should like them too. Especially, if you want to give awesome ones. In order to achieve this, don’t look at blowjobs as mandatory tasks you have to do to please your partner the “real” way. To be the best in the game, you also want to enjoy it. Think about it as a way of pleasing your partner. You love seeing his reaction when you surprise him with something he really likes, right? Well, this is somewhat the same.

HOW TO BLOW HIM (AWAY)

So, here’s how to make him bite his tongue out of sheer joy:

KEEP THINGS SLOW

After all, it’s foreplay. As the name suggests, take the time to play around with his groin area, thighs… Feel free to use your lips, hands, tongue around this area, paying special attention to his balls. The point is, not to devour his member like a hot dog after a day of total fasting. Build up some tension – make him beg for you!

SALIVA, THE BREAD, AND BUTTER OF BLOWING

Give him a nasty blowjob with your saliva all over the place. It’s a trend now, and chances are, he’s also a big fan of this current fade.

However, if you’re unable to produce enough (or don’t really feeling like depending on) saliva, you can also use lubricants to spice things up. Some of them even come in flavors, so you might get your juicy kicks from them too.

You can also have water ready for you, to avoid getting dehydrated. Also, the cold water in your mouth can give him  sensations he’s never experienced before.

APPRECIATE THE WHOLE PENIS

It’s not just the tip. It’s not just the shaft or the balls. Think about the penis as a whole, just waiting to be pleased. However, don’t try stuffing everything in your mouth. Instead, play a little with the shaft, licking him from the base to the tip, while looking into his eyes.

After that, spend some time around his balls. Take one of his testicles in your mouth, lick them around, kiss them.

Also, you’ll want to play with the tip too. As a matter of fact, the most nerve endings are located there on the penis, so focusing a bit more on this area might be a good idea. Take the tip into your mouth, suck on it, play around with it with your tongue – just look at his reactions and take notes for times to come.

You can experiment with taking the tip of his penis into your mouth, while your hands remain free to play around with the shaft. Stimulate the tip and jerk him off at the same time – sounds pretty legit.

THE HANDS 

Your hands can always help you out when it comes to blowjobs. For instance, while your mouth is occupied playing around with his balls, you can use one of your hands to lend him a helping hand, i.e. jerking him off. You can also do it the other way around by caressing his balls lightly while your mouth is concentrating on his member. Also, you can grab his ass with both hands while you take him in deep – he’ll love that.

ADD VARIETY 

Sure, keeping constant rhythm is the best way to make him enjoy the blowjob you’re giving. However, things can get pretty stale pretty quick. So, in order not to get boring, try to introduce a little variety. Apart from ball-play and messing around the shaft, make sure to spice things up when he’s directly in your mouth.

How? How about messing around with how deep you go with your sucks? How about eight shallow ones and one deep? Then seven? Six? OR, how about mixing it up with some other number combo?

TAKE FIVE AND SHOW PASSION 

Take small brakes to catch your breath and to keep jaw ache away. Keep the sexy flow going by jerking him off or even better, touching yourself (this will show that you’re having the time of your life too and that you’re extremely hot for him).

Also, sneak in a few moans here and there when you can. As a matter of fact, when you’re humming while his penis is in your mouth, his whole member vibrates slightly bringing him a great deal of joy and pleasure.

TAKE THE INITIATIVE 

One of the sexiest things you can do is to show enthusiasm when you initiate. Show him that you love doing this and that you’re really excited to please him. Be confident and dive into it – take off his pants, get on your knees while he’s standing. Let him see that you’re stoked to do this.

You have a lot of different tricks and bj moves out there but you just can’t beat the simplicity and effectiveness of enthusiasm.

Tell him that you love doing this, that you love pleasing him orally. If he’s not a complete jerk, he’ll most probably remember your efforts and he will try to do his best to reciprocate.

Lastly, don’t forget that you’re the one in control. You are the one who stimulates him, it’s up to you when and how he reaches sexual climax. Turn this to your advantage, and please the carp out of him.

SURPRISE, SURPRISE

Never underestimate the element of surprise. Why not initiate a bj while he’s sleeping? Surely, a nice way to wake your guy up. Take your time, caress his member, take it in your hand, then in your mouth. Go a little bit slow, just to make sure that he doesn’t get spooked out in his sleep. You don’t want him to accidentally kick you or something.

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FOUR ADVANCED TECHNIQUES FOR HIS PLEASURE

PLAY AROUND WITH THE FRENULUM – If you’ve been wondering, the frenulum is the ridge which is running along under the penis, and it’s really sensitive with tons of nerve endings. To give him a blowjob he’ll never forget, stimulate the area of the frenulum with your mouth. He’ll be thankful.

TIP AND SHAFT ACTION – as we’ve told you above, concentrating on the tip will give him a great deal to enjoy. Seal your lips just underneath the frenulum, suck on his member and try to recreate the thrusting motion he does when you two are having sex. You can grab his shaft with your hands and you can move your hand in the same motion, synchronized with your lips.

TESTICLES, TESTICLES, AND TESTICLES – We’ve already mentioned this, and we’ll do it again. The majority of guys like it when women play around with their balls, however, the ladies tend to ignore the testicles during oral sex. Feel free to lick or cup them. Also, gently sucking on them is another thing they really appreciate.

PLAY AROUND WITH THE SCROTUM TOO – The scrotum is actually the tissue surrounding the testicles, and what do you know, men also like it when you take the scrotum in your mouth. This will make his testicles handle the pressure better, and at the same time, it’s really satisfying. However, be cautious. Stay still for a bit after taking it in your mouth since it’s a really sensitive area and you’ll want to give him time to adjust.

SEEK WAYS TO IMPROVE CONSTANTLY AND READ HIS BODY

Getting info about new blowjob techniques is one surefire way to improve your oral sex chops, however, talking things over with your partner is another thing that will help you with perfecting your craft.

Ask him whether he enjoyed it or not. Ask him to point out stuff that he really liked and also to mention things that felt creepy and less pleasurable to him.

THINGS TO WATCH FOR MID-ACTION

If you’re in the middle of the act, don’t stop to start a bj therapy session. Just keep on going and experiment – if he moans and breathes heavily, chances are, he’s loving it. If that’s the case, just go along the lines of the technique you’re currently using.

Deep breathing is a good indicator of his pleasure. He usually breathes slowly and heavily when you’re doing something that causes him pleasure. As he gets closer and closer to the top, breathing will get deeper too. He might even hold his breath when he’s ready to shoot his ammo.

Also, notice if he’s relaxed or tense. When his body is the latter, chances are, he’s ready to cum. However, this can be a bit misleading, especially when you’re only learning the fine art of blowing a man. What are we talking about? He might just be tense and holding his breath because you’re causing him pain… If you get discouraged, don’t be shy and ask him.

Make sure that you’re not hurting your partner with your teeth. Biting happens way more often than men would like and women would like to admit. Yes, you can bite, but GENTLY, and playfully. However, even this gentle bite isn’t a real bite. It’s more like just gliding your teeth on his member. Some guys really enjoy this. Experiment a bit to tell if you’re man is a fan of this or not.

If you’re afraid of biting him, try wrap your lips around your teeth and thus ensuring protection from them.

IT’S OKAY IF HE WON’T CUM

You should know that there are men out there who won’t get off by oral stimulation only. This may be due to the fact that they’re used to more direct stimulation, something firmer.

They can also be trying too hard, or they can be really nervous. Maybe they’re convinced that you don’t like giving blowjobs, so they have a hard time relaxing. Also, they might feel that they must perform and they get nervous. This can take their focus away from enjoying the blowjob they’re receiving and make it a lot harder for them to reach orgasm.

Maybe you’re doing things that just won’t get him there. If that’s the case, ask him or let him help you.

FINISHING THOUGHTS

Whether you’re a pro are a newbie, the most important thing when giving an awesome blowjob is enthusiasm and willingness. Men find it incredibly arousing when they can tell that their partner is all over the place to please them.

On the other hand, it’s important to read his body language and the little signs. If you notice that he’s uncomfortable, change techniques, slow down, speed up – see what works.

Also, don’t forget to talk things over in order to improve. Sex, whether oral, vaginal, anal or whatever, is best when both of you receive what you enjoy and there’s no better way to learn each other’s preferences by speaking about them.

Now, you’re all set. Now go, blow his mind.

How to Give the Best Blowjob Ever?

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Women all know that pleasing a man in the bedroom isn’t rocket science. Why? Well, men tend to get aroused pretty quickly and just rush into the whole act of sex. Sadly.

And then, there are those real studs that women like to refer to as the “real deal”. These men know that rushing into things is a big no-no when it comes to sex. These men are rare. And they deserve the best. The best what? The best blowjob.

Yes, your next question is: How to give a blowjob, how to give a good one? Well, it’s not that hard but giving an awesome blowjob does require some practice and a bit of work. 

Whether you’re a pro or just a greenhorn, knowing how to suck dick is essential and knowing how to give the best blowjob is mandatory if you want to take your sex game to the next level. 

So, without further ado, we bring you a crash course on how to give the best blowjob ever. 

GETTING INTO IT

Giving a great blowjob isn’t necessarily hard but it does take some practice, knowledge, and even endurance. In order to rock his world, you’ll need to have a few really good tricks up your sleeve but don’t worry, you’ll learn all of them here. 

Foreplay is important – It’s pretty much the same for him as it is for you. He needs to get into the groove of things, so take your time and have fun. Tease him and touch him. Give her man parts a few kisses and licks. Lick and kiss the balls, the shaft, and the tip of the penis. Make him hot for you. 

THE BLOWJOB – DOING IT THE RIGHT WAY 

There’s a huge difference between blowing him and BLOWING him. Period. Just taking him into your mouth does not count as a blowjob. You have to get into the groove and blow him with all of what you’ve got. Get freaky – use your hands, lips, tongue. Play around with his groin area, the balls, the tip of the penis, the shaft… Get creative. Don’t just focus on the beginning and the middle – you also need to focus on the climax. Some men find it really hot when you swallow their cum. Others prefer facials. You know, like in porn. Let your partner finish up the work while you gently lick the tip of his junk – he will thank you later. 

Don’t be boring – No, we’re not saying you don’t know what to do. All we want to say is, the last thing you want to do is to develop a boring routine. Don’t use the same stuff the whole time and over and over again. Spice things up. 

Use your tongue. Lick his balls, the shaft, and the tip. The groin area. You get it. 

Form an O with your lips and take him in your mouth. Start bobbing your heap up and down while he’s in there. Go deeper as you get more and more accustomed to him. You can do this either by holding his penis in your hand or wrapped around his behind. Bobbing up and down hands-free and going a bit deeper all the time is something he’ll really appreciate.

Have fun with his balls. Suck gently on one of his testicles. Lick them around, take them in your mouth. To top things off, jerk his cock while you’re at it. He’ll love it. Jerking him off also comes in handy (get it?) when you want to take a break. To keep things spicy, feel free to keep the tip in your mouth if you can relax that way.

Deep Throat him. It might seem hard at first, but if you do it right, your man will go nuts but more on that later.

The Devil hides in the details – in order to give him a blowjob worth remembering, you’ll have to go that extra mile. No, we’re not talking about standing on your hands or doing magic tricks. However, there are a few things that can make him extra horny and turn you into a full-blown seductress. 

  • Take the initiative – grab his pants and pull them off. Push him on the bed and keep eye contact with him as your hands slip into his underwear. Be dominant. This will turn him on like never before. 
  • Give your best – If you’re going deep, try going a bit deeper. Bob your head vigorously, squeeze his ass cheeks while you’re at it. Use your tongue more aggressively, and for Pete’s sake, spit on that dick!
  • Talk dirty to him – This is one bulletproof way to turn him on. Just make sure, you don’t talk with your mouth full…
  • Sloppy all the way – Embrace the flow of saliva. Enough said. 
  • Get inventive with positions – make sure that you’re positioning yourself for his pleasure. You can get on your knees as a sign of signaling submission. You can also be dominant and push him on the bed or the chair. Opting for 69? It’s your choice. 

Deep Throat for the win – Men love when women deepthroat them. If it only wasn’t for that pesky gag reflex… However, you can learn to get your gag reflex under control. All you need to do is to desensitize it. This isn’t that hard but it takes a little practice. In order to train the back of your throat and tonsils to stop causing you to gag, you’ll need to practice on something phallic-shaped, like a dildo. The point is, to use something clean.

Take the dildo in your mouth and slowly edge toward the back of your throat. With time, your gag reflex will get less and less sensitive. Try to go a little deeper every time and try suppressing your gag reflex. Relax your throat and maintain to breathe through your nose. Practice this routine a few times a week and you’ll get the hang of it in no time.

Swallow? You might get grossed out of the thought, however, for most men, it’s a hugely erotic and submissive gesture, that will keep them coming back for more. On the other hand, if you’ve been fantasizing about swallowing his load, don’t worry, a lot of women have. It’s totally normal. 

So, in order to swallow his cum, you’ll have to let him ejaculate in your mouth and when he’s all dried up, you swallow what’s in your mouth. If you’re on the kinkier side, you can play around with his load with your tongue and lips. Swirl it around your mouth, if it’s near your mouth, lick it up. Creativity is key.  

THE BEST TECHNIQUES EVER? ENTHUSIASM AND COMMUNICATION

At the end of the day, every man is different and every man will have different likes and dislikes when it comes to blowjobs, In order to give YOUR partner the best blowjob ever, you’ll need to find out what he likes best. In order to pull this off, you two will need to be open with each other. 

Don’t be shy to ask questions about how he likes his dick sucked. If he’s experienced, he might blush a little but he’ll definitely tell you what turns him on. Also, chances are, he’ll be okay if you accidentally mess something up while you’re blowing him. 

Your enthusiasm is another thing that will make a huge difference. If you’re just getting through the motions, your partner will definitely notice. Show that you really want to do this, that you’re all about putting his member in your mouth. When you blow your guy with enthusiasm, it will be arousing and he won’t be able to get your hands off of you. Even if you’re not entirely sure about what you’re doing, just keep being enthusiastic. With practice, it’ll be awesome. Trust us. 

All in all, what you need to keep in mind here (apart from our great tips, of course), is that you should be honest and open with your partner. Tell him that you want to cause him pleasure, and in order to achieve that, he will need to help. He will be more than happy to give you the info you need. After all, it’s a blowjob and he’s a man!

How to Give a Good Blowjob Worth Remembering

How to Give a Good Blowjob Worth Remembering

Women will agree on one thing: pleasing men in bed is rather easy. Let’s face it, it’s really not rocket science since men tend to get aroused pretty quickly and a lot of them just rush into sex altogether and finish up (unfortunately) rather fast.

However, there are men out there who like to mix it up, who like to enjoy every single minute of sex. If you’ve bagged yourself such a stud, good for you! However, you’ve noticed that he has pretty high expectations and that he expects you to perform as well. Okay, maybe that’s not the case, you just simply want to up your game, develop some new skills to please your partner.

Whatever the case is, you’re here because you want to get better at blowjobs. You’re looking for blowjob instructions or a great article on how to give good blowjobs. Maybe you want to know how to suppress your gag reflex.

All in all, what your looking for is instructions on how to give a good blowjob. The kind that leaves him breathless and you can actually see him drooling after he climaxed. Well, if that’s the case, you’ve come to the right place, since we have the inside scoop just for you!

THE ART OF THE BLOWJOB

In all honesty, giving a blowjob worth remembering isn’t that easy. It takes a great deal of practice, knowledge, and endurance (yup). There are also a lot of techniques, tips, and tricks you should know and practice to give the blowjob of his life. If that’s what you’re after, then here’s your to-do list:

        FOREPLAY AND THE BUILDUP

You don’t want to rush right into it. Just think about it: you yourself – in most cases – like to take your time, you like to tease and you also like to be teased. The same rule applies here too.

When the trousers and boxer shorts are down, give his dick a few licks and kisses. This is called “blowjob foreplay”.

You want to begin the job (pun intended) by teasing and touching him before you jump into it. Give his member a few licks and kisses. Kiss his balls, lick the tip and the shaft of the penis before you start pleasing him with your mouth. If you do it right, he will be hot for you as hell.

        THE ART OF BLOWING – THE TECHNIQUES

Once you start to please him orally, the last thing you want to do is to use the same stuff the whole time. Mix things up! Use multiple techniques so he never knows what you have in for him next!

What can you do?

Licking – Lick his balls, lick the shaft. Lick the tip of his member. Lick his groin. You get the picture. Use your tongue like there’s no tomorrow.

The up & down – Form an O with your lips and take his cock in your mouth. Then, just slowly bob your head up and down. If you’re a beginner, try just the tip at first, then go deeper and deeper as you get more and more comfortable.

Ball play – Most men will love it when you play with their balls. The technique is fairly simple – suck on one of the testicles gently. Lick around it, play with them with your tongue. In the meantime, you can still jerk their cock,

No hands – This is basically the up & down technique, but you don’t have the penis in your hand or hands. Instead, you just bob your head up and down. Going deeper than usual when not using your hands is something he will really appreciate.

Deep Throat – This is a more advanced technique, but if you do it right, your man will be over the moon. It causes extra pleasure thanks to the back of your throat. More precisely, as you take him deep into your mouth, your tonsils and back of your throat will eventually come into contact with the tip of his cock.

The jerk – Who says you can’t take breaks? Every now and then grab his cock and gently jerk on it. To top it off, you can leave the tip in your mouth while you jerk the shaft.

The Twister – While holding him in your hands, circle your tongue slowly around the top of his penis.

        GETTING THE JOB DONE RIGHT – THROUGHOUT

While mixing things up during the blowjob is crucial to perform a “blowjob worth remembering” the “grand finale” is also something you’ll want to think about. Yes, making him cum the right way is also really important.

There are a few things you go with when ending the blowjob.

First of all, you can swallow his cum – some men find it really hot.

How about facials? Let him cum on your face. If they’re into porn, they will love this.

Use your hands. This one is pretty self-explanatory.

Let them finish, while you gently lick the tip – they will thank you for it.

        TAKING IT ALL TO THE NEXT LEVEL

By now, you know that sucking cock, in particular, is pretty hardcore, but if you want to suck him like a pro, you may want to go that extra mile so he can have the “porn star-experience”  he always wanted but was always afraid to ask for.

If you want to give him the ride of his life, there are a few tricks you can apply to the tips we mentioned before.

Take the initiative – Grab him by his pants and get to work! If he’s on the shy side, he will find it pretty arousing that you’re so seductive and horny with him.

Give it all you got – You’re constantly going deep? Try going a little deeper. While deep throating him, grab his ass cheeks with your hand. Jerk him a little harder, use your tongue a bit more aggressively – you get the gist of the whole thing here,

Talk dirty – Dirty talk is always a good idea. Just make sure you don’t start talking with him in your mouth.

Give a sloppy BJ – Saliva. Saliva everywhere. He’ll love it.

        POSITION YOURSELF FOR HIS PLEASURE

In addition to mixing up techniques, you can use a variety of positions when you give your man a blowjob. Will you get down on your knees signaling submission? Will you take control and push him on the bed or on the chair? Will you be the one who’s lying on the bed while your man is standing on the edge? Or would you like to receive pleasure while you’re giving it and throw in the good old 69? It’s up to you!

        THE GOOD OL’ DEEP THROAT

Men love this. There’s just no way around it. And even though, it sounds pretty simple, you’ll always have to deal with one sworn enemy: your own gag reflex!

Getting your gag reflex under control simply means desensitizing it. This means you’ll have to train the back of your throat and tonsils to stop causing you to gag anytime touches them. In this case, your man’s member. This process takes time so don’t feel frustrated if you don’t get it right at first. In order to make things easier, you can practice when you’re alone.

You can use a dildo or something phallic-shaped. Make sure it’s clean and sterile.

Place it into your mouth and slowly edge toward the back of your throat. Eventually, your gag reflex will get triggered. When this happens, try to suppress the reflex and hold it there.

Maintain your breathing through your nose and at the same time, concentrate on relaxing your throat. This can get difficult at times, but the key is to keep trying.  Try doing this two or three times a week and you’ll see that with time, your gag reflex will become less and less sensitive.

        SWALLOW OR NOT?

Swallowing his load might not sound like something you’d want to do willingly, however, for most men it’s both an erotic and submissive gesture, and honestly, most men like to take the dominant role in bed.

First of all, let set one thing straight: If you’ve been fantasizing about swallowing his cum, you’re not alone. A lot of women have and it’s entirely normal. Don’t worry about this.

What Does It Taste Like?

Cum generally tends to taste a little bitter and salty, but the general taste isn’t awful. Taste actually depends a lot on the things he’s eaten before. If he had a lot of sweet fruit, his load will also taste quite sweet – and this will make it easier to swallow!

The Basics Of Swallowing

Swallowing cum is no rocket science. All you have to do is allow him to ejaculate in your mouth, then when he’s finished, you just swallow it. However, as sperm tends to be sticky in texture, you’d want him to cum into the back of your throat as it will be easier to swallow.

You can also play around with his load with your tongue and lips. You can open your mouth to show him his load then swallow it. Swirl it around in your mouth. If he cums on your face and chest, lick up what you can. Use your fingers to scoop the load up and put it in your mouth. Get creative!

The Health Benefits

Yes, you’ve read it right. Swallowing cum actually has its own health benefits. Which are they?

Oxytocin – Semen contains oxytocin aka the bonding hormone that helps you increase trust and reduces your fear. This is great if you want to feel closer to your man.

Brain-boosting – Semen contains a lot of nerve growth factor which is a compound responsible for neuron growth in the brain and it also boosts brain health.

Antioxidants – His cum contains loads of beneficial antioxidants which all protect against damaging free radicals.

Spermidine for a longer life – sperm contains the compound known as spermidine which has been proven to have anti-aging properties.

Electrolytes – sperm contains numerous electrolytes, like calcium, magnesium, potassium etc, which are vital for maintaining your health, especially if you want to function at your best.

        COMMUNICATION FOR THE WIN

Even if you do everything by the book, you can still end up messing something up. That’s just the ugly truth and the nature of all things sex. Why? Because we’re all different. Communication is the key to figure out his preferences and stuff that will rock his socks off.

For instance, some guys will love if you deep throat them, other’s don’t care for it at all. Some will absolutely love it when you swallow their cum, and it will be a straight turn-off for others. The same thing applies to facials, testicle play and so on,

The point is, talk to your man and learn about his preferences, likes, and dislikes. This way, it will be easy to figure out how to give him that elusive blowjob that’s worth remembering.

By talking to him, he can also learn about your preferences also. The objective is to strike a deal that the both of you can enjoy. You don’t want to engage in sexual practices you don’t really want to do but you do it anyway because your partner insists on it. Things like this aren’t right nor fair and experiences like these don’t really make for a great relationship.

THE BEST TECHNIQUE OUT THERE – BEING ENTHUSIASTIC

        THE BEST TECHNIQUE OUT THERE – BEING ENTHUSIASTIC

Enthusiasm is by far the most powerful ace up your sleeve in giving awesome blowjobs.

It applies to all areas in sex. Just think about it. No matter what you do in bed, if you’re just getting through the motions like you’re uninterested, then sparks won’t be flying everywhere. You’ll be happier when things are finally over and you can finally binge-watch your favorite show.

On the other hand, if you and your man can’t keep your hands off of each other, you kiss each other with intense passion, and you two make love like both of you are possessed, then time flies and you just can’t wait to get your freak on again!

When you give your man a BJ with enthusiasm, it’s going to be massively arousing. So, even if you’re not entirely sure about what you’re doing, just keep being enthusiastic. Things will work out for the best.

        BUILD CONFIDENCE

In all honesty, none of the tips and tricks you’ve just read will be useful if you’re acting super awkward in front of your guy when you two are getting nasty in bed. Act confident since it’s more sexually satisfying.

But how should you be more confident?

Practice – If you want to give the best blowjob ever to your man, then there’s no way around it, you’ll have to practice, practice, and practice some more. The easiest way is by using a dildo or by putting a condom on a banana. Just be careful and don’t choke on them!

What is sexual confidence? Being fully confident sexually means that you’re comfortable with yourself, with your body. It’s not all about just being good at sex. Studies have shown that the more comfortable you are with your body, the more satisfied you and your partner will be.

Sadly, no matter how much you learn about sex online, you won’t get more confident sexually. Sad but true. In order to get truly confident, you need to get comfortable with who you are. Remember, nobody is perfect and everyone has things about themselves that they wish the could change, but can’t.

Getting more comfortable with who you are takes time. The most important thing is to realize that most things you worry about are not that big of a deal.

He’s probably nerves too. Maybe even more than you. If you think that men are sexually confident, then you’re living a lie. He may be worried about not getting or losing his erection. He may also worry about size, length, circumference… Cumming way too quickly or not cumming at all… And this is just the tip of the iceberg.

You know those men who tend to brag about their sexual performance? Well, you know the old saying: The emptiest can rattles the most.

The truth is, in most cases, he will be too worried about his own performances so he will not notice any awkwardness or mistakes with yours.

        THE TAKEAWAY

Now you know. There are tons of info out there on giving a good blowjob and most of them are pure gold. However,  no matter what you do if you’re not comfortable with yourself and with the whole situation.

So, next time you’re about to give a blowjob, keep in mind that it’s okay to make mistakes and a little bit of awkwardness never hurt anybody. If you can, talk to your man about his preferences and tell him yours. Don’t do anything you don’t feel like doing and most Importantly, don’t stress out! Remember, sex is supposed to be fun! To learn more, visit our blog, today!

How to Suck Your Own Cock

How to Suck Your Own Cock

Is it possible to suck your own dick? – this is a question that probably every guy has asked himself at on point or another in his life. Like come on, it’s just something you’ve probably thought about even if you’re not really into it. You know, just out of curiosity.

And let’s be pretty honest here, a lot of guys have even attempted it. If nothing else, you’ve probably had a few minutes alone, enough curiosity, a hard penis and you’ve wanted to know how close you can get your own mouth to your member. Don’t get freaked out of yourself and don’t start punishing yourself if you’ve tried it multiple times. It’s actually pretty normal. You’re not the first neither the last who took a shot at it. However, the hard truth is (no pun intended), only a selected few are able to pull this off. Meaning, some men out there Can suck their own cock.

THE UGLY TRUTH

For those, who really want to experience the thrill of self-fellatio, the ugliest part is that dreaded inch that’s needed to pull the trick off. That, and knowing for a fact that there are men on this planet who can bridge that single inch with their contortionist skills and bulging package. They are rare, but they are out there.

SO, WHAT ARE THE SECRETS BEHIND BEING ABLE TO GIVE A KISS TO YOUR OWN MEMBER?

   BE THIN

As a general rule of thumb, men who can suck their own cocks are skinny dudes. There isn’t really an average weight for this, but being slim is an advantage. This shouldn’t come as a surprise since it’s pretty self-explanatory that it’s much easier to reach for your little fella if you don’t have to deal with a beer gut.

Pro tip: give it a try on an empty stomach. A belly full of food will only slow you down and it will only get in your way.

PENIS SIZE, on the other hand, plays a less important role than many would think. Men who have reported being able to perform self-fellatio weren’t, on average, bigger than 7 inches hard, which might be huge for some, but it’s not something these guys would get stopped at an airport by security to get checked for carrying around weapons.

That being said, it seems body type plays a more important role than the actual size of the penis.

   RELAX AND STRETCH

While you won’t have to perform advanced yoga poses and different maneuvers to please yourself with your lips, it’s pretty important to stretch beforehand – especially your neck muscles. This means you should really get into it a week before your first try and see, how far can you stretch that torso of yours and every muscle above shoulders height Some will even recommend taking a warm and long bath to loosen up. For manly men, this might seem an overkill, as putting your own member in your own mouth isn’t already “homo” enough.

People with experience in this area will also tell you that once you reached your goal i.e. your own dick, you definitely want to practice. They say, if you decide to lay off the next-level self-play, you can get pretty rusty at it. However, they also state that you practice it on a regular basis, not only will you get better at it, you’ll also be able to get down on yourself in different positions and you’ll be able to take a more of yourself in your mouth.

   HOW TO STRETCH?

Here are a few techniques that will help you achieve your goal:

1.  Put your legs next to each other while you’re on the floor, sitting. Have your legs in front of you. Stretch your torso across the legs lengthwise. In this position, try reaching past your feet. Repeat this a couple of time going deeper and deeper every time.

2.  Sit on the floor upright with one of your heels at your crotch with one leg extended to your side as much as you can. Now, aim to bring your chest down too in this position.

3.  Lie down on your stomach with your back arched backward. Hold the position, stretch your neck upward and flex your spine

4.  Take a few classes of yoga, you’ll probably get a better picture of what can really help you.

   GET HARD

Like, DUHHH! Okay, this is pretty much self-explanatory. If you can put in your mouth when it’s soft, you should get an award. Well, some actually consider being able to suck their own cock a pretty okay reward so… The takeaway here is, the harder you are the better. You might want to use a cock ring to keep things stiff throughout.

Be stiff we don’t mean your neck. Don’t forget to stretch, you need to be as flexible as you can get to pull this off!

   GET IN POSITION

Being slim and being a considerable size are just two things in the big scheme of things. Picking your position is also pretty important. Some men prefer to get on their backs with their heels up in the air, aiming to bring their penises toward their mouths. If this is something you’re considering trying, make sure to try it on a harder surface, like the floor.

Others prefer sitting down – (even on the toilet). Just bend your waist and get your head “down there.”

You can try both techniques, The first might be good for warming up. You can also stand up and grab your tights from the behind. Then, with your back, pull in an outward position so your spine is in stretched a position needs can get used to.

Now, push your hips closer your face so that your cock gets closer. This is a pretty hard technique so don’t expect to get it right at your first attempt but you know, practice makes perfect.

   GET A HELPING HAND

If you’re having problems reaching “the promised land” on your own, feel free to ask for help from your girlfriend, partner. They may be able to assist you with overcoming those last inches by pressing gently on your legs or maybe head – it depends on the position you choose.

Yes, we know. You’re asking out loud: “Why on Earth would I want to do this if I already have somebody to do it for me?” Well, to each his own. If you have somebody to do it for you or you have no interest in sucking your own dick, then you might find another article to read. Those, on the other hand, who are really considering getting into self-fellatio, shouldn’t keep to themselves, they should feel free to ask their partners for help. Because, you know, sex is supposed to be fun and exciting!

   DON’T EVEN THINK ABOUT STARTING IT UNPREPARED

If you succeed and you’ll be able to get your own dick in your mouth, you want to be prepared. Prepared for being nagged to show off your little secret in front of those who know about it. The other thing is, well, exploding in your own mouth. Yup. Straight men have little to no experience in this particular field and it might come to them as a shock at first. Guys who already did it will say that it’s more exciting than it I gross so most people will be fine, will a little gagging is perfectly normal.

The other thing you want to keep in check is stretching. As stated before, it’s essential if you want to reach your full potential and your own cock. Also, making sure your muscles are fully stretched will ensure that you will have fewer chances of suffering a serious accident. Let’s be honest here, giving yourself a blowjob might sound easy, but it can literally pass as a triple X circus act.

FINAL THOUGHTS

As stated before, giving yourself a BJ is not easy and you don’t want to jump right into it. Make sure to take the necessary precautions. Stretch and loosen up. Don’t eat anything beforehand. Make sure that you are flexible enough to pull it off. You don’t want to explain yourself to a group of EMTs in the ambulance, do you? For more similar articles, visit our blog, today!