We all know what’s the number one male fantasy. Yup, it’s a threesome. There’s just something way too magical and sexy about banging to chicks at the same time. However, chances are that you’re actually gonna pull it off are little to one.
If you’re lucky, maybe your one of the selected few are in a happy, committed relationship, and both you and your partner on the same page about giving it a try.
First, congrats! This is a rather hot sexual experience and you can be pretty sure that it will stick with you until the rest of your life. On the other hand, to live out a fantasy such as this takes lots of courage and bravery from a couple since they are basically letting someone in their most intimate sphere, which can be really frightening for some. Now, that you two are ready to pull it off, it won’t matter if it’s going to be a once in a lifetime thing or a new “hobby”, it could be a real game-changer In your sex life.
Still, the – rather important – question remains: How to find a threesome partner?
AND THEN. THERE WHERE THREE
Both of you are ready for action. The only problem is, you don’t even know where to start. Maybe ask your friends? Ah, that’s way too awkward. Okay, then. Scratch that. How about strangers? Craigslist? No, you two aren’t such risk-takers, and both of you still want to keep your kidneys after the encounter.
Then, where? How?
These are totally legit questions. So, where to find your third wheel for some nasty action (or some nice vanilla play)?
Honestly, selecting this person shouldn’t be something that you do as quickly as possible, you need to put work in it. And by all means, it’s quite a huge decision.
For starters, both of you have to agree about the identity of that third person. You know, in such scenarios, a lot of things can get awkward pretty fast since you’ll be kissing, touching, thrusting, penetrating, moaning, screaming, cuddling, and sleeping together. Not to mention, at the same time.
So, how to start off on the right foot? BunnyCam is here to help.
SWINGING FOR THE WIN
Maybe this sounds a little bit awkward, but one thing’s for sure, it’s a lot less weird than asking one of your best friends to join…
So, this might be the right place to start – visit a swinger club.
Just by giving the club a visit, you can get a better idea of how these things go in the first place. On the other hand, you can either ask for assistance or just tell the people there about what you two are about to give a try.
This can be also a good starting point when one of your (or both of you) aren’t entirely sure about the whole threesome idea, you might be able to get a few good points either against or for the whole act.
On the other hand, if you’re not really sure about having a threesome at home or at another place, a swinger club might just be your best option.
Also, this can make the whole process much smoother, since you won’t have to search in the “riskiest” places for a partner. These clubs are quite reliable, so, if you’re really into having a threesome, this might be your best place.
On the other hand, if you two are still a bit stiff about the while swinging thing, you might be glad to know that most swingers are also regulars at informal sex parties, so chances are, if you find the ideal third person, you might be able to strike a deal with them that’s good for all parties.
To top it off, loads of these clubs offer other gatherings we’re couples can get a taste of the lifestyle without diving into the whole orgy-scene head first.
So, before you make up your mind about the way you want to find a partner, it’s important to do the right amount of research.
Then again, if you two are a hundred percent sure about getting into the whole swinging lifestyle, by all means, know yourself out and visit your nearest swinger club. Just make sure to visit one with a good rep.
THE INTERNET IS YOUR FRIEND
The problem with swinger clubs is that they can be pretty pricey and if you two decide to go with different escort services, you can still find yourself set back, money-wise. Let’s be honest here, a few hundred (or even thousand) bucks for a night of sex is pretty steep for some, especially when you consider the fact that you’re able to have it for free when there’s just the two of you.
That being said, you can also check out your online options. However, before you do that, you’ll want to know that there are tons of scams that you can get yourself pulled in, so you should be quite reserved and critical when you’re exploring these options.
It’s not just about the money, you can also have an awful experience or a bad encounter. Whatever the case is, it’s not what you wanted in the first place.
The other thing is, you want to be a little cautious. When you’re searching for various dating sites for some threesome action, you’re basically flooded with different results and a lot of them are pretty sketchy.
When you find yourself in such a situation, you should do the same thing you’d do with swinger clubs: look for those with the best reputation – especially as far as their billing options go.
So, in order to save you from a few headaches, we did some of the work for you:
Why not try XMatch?
Why not look at the right place by browsing profiles that have similar or exactly the same interests as you? By checking out this reliable source, you two can discuss your potential third partner, also you can see what’s the market like, and let’s be honest, exploring these profiles can be really fun and thus, a great way to take the edge off that comes with the whole idea, and it can help you get comfortable with the topic.
If you choose this particular site, you can also chat with your potential partners and it’s a trusted one. It’s a great way to get started.
Before we get started let’s get one thing clear: the “X” in the name isn’t there for show, That being said, be prepared that this site is the to-go site for many in the swinger culture, for the most part, because it’s a rather open-minded platform (if you catch our drift).
You can also chat here to get things started and you can also meet potential partners, and, once you’re there, have sex with them.
Fortunately, you don’t have to have sex right away. People who use this site are quite understanding and will help you to ease in, and to get comfortable with threesome sex at your own tempo.
This is another great choice for those who want to explore their threesome options. Just like the other sites, this one is also trusted by swingers, and everyone registered on the site has similar sexual interests as you two.
The site is user-friendly, and getting in touch with like-minded people will be smooth sailing. If you’re determined to give having a threesome a shot, this is an excellent place to hit a conversation up and to discuss your options. This one is great for couples because it has a huge database that can ensure that everybody has their needs met.
REGISTER FOR FUN
If you’ve found the site that suits all your and your partner’s needs, it’s time to get the ball rolling. And to help you with that, here are some of the basics you need to do in order the stop dreaming and start having awesome threesomes:
Get A Profile
Firstly, you’ll want to decide if you want an individual or a couple of profile (hey, we won’t judge). However, if you two are into this together, it might be a better idea to set up a couple of profile, so the potential third partner has a clear picture of what they’re in for. They can also make a better decision if they are interested or attracted. Also, you can skip an extra introduction this way.
Choose Your Photos Wisely
Choosing the right picture can also make your job a lot easier. If you two are into particular kinks (such as roleplay or BDSM), it’s better to set up a profile picture that kind of reflects your preferences.
You can also illustrate that with a couple of individual pictures (make sure that those show off your entire body).
Getting The Message Out There
Now, you’re all set up, all you need to do is to find someone who both of you find attractive and hit up a conversation with them. Just be casual, keep your cool. Start with something that’s kind of gets the message through, but it’s not too direct. Oh, and keep it sexy.
As you can see, you have a couple of options if you’re looking for a partner. Swinger clubs, specific online dating platforms… You have your options and you’ll be glad to learn that people in this community are willing to help you with every step. Now, keep your cool and have fun.
Now, to make your experience even kinkier, read up on some awesome sex tips in our blog section.