How to use a sex swing

Sex swing

When you are looking to explore new avenues of your sexuality sometimes you have to think outside conventional means. Sure, we love a good lube and vibrators and dildos definitely make a couple’s sex life more exciting, but if you are looking to explore heightened sexuality with a partner, you’ll want to look into a more advanced product. Our suggestion is to try out a high-quality sex swing!

The idea of a more advanced toy may bring about questions and concerns. As with any new experience, a level of curiosity is always encouraged and you’ll want to get answers about the product you’re using upfront. What should I expect? Is it difficult to set-up? Will I like it? Will my partner experience pleasure? Can I install something like a swing safely?

The answer is yes! A sex swing is perfect for the man or woman in your life who might be screaming for more excitement and just doesn’t know what is out there and what to expect from toys outside the standard models. Lucky for you, we have broken down the swing, the pleasure points and the ways you and your partner can use your swing to revive your sex life and experience ultimate pleasure!

What is a sex swing?

At this point you might be asking yourself, “What is a sex swing?”

Great question! A sex swing is a series of harnesses used for partners to engage in sex and sexual acts together. One partner is suspended in the air while the other partner performs oral sex or intercourse. The swing allows for positioning to be flexible, creative and safe. For the most standard of designs a swing will have a reinforced section for one partner’s back, stirrups and/or support for the buttocks.

Various materials are used in sex swings, but the most popular materials are: nylon, leather, neoprene and durable rubber. Most swings use wood, steel or another sturdy metal to be installed in a ceiling or reinforced on the floor. There are all kinds of add-ons, accessories and positions you and your partner can enjoy, but best of all is the versatility that is offered with a swing.

Why choose a sex swing for you and your partner?

A sex swing is great for the adventurous couple who wants a little more spice in the bedroom. A sex swing is easy to use and versatile in the different ways it can be used. For example, one partner might be laying down, back to the seat with his or her hands straddle or tied while their partner is giving them oral sex or intercourse.

There are ways to enjoy sex with a swing that are impossible in a traditional bed or floor position. The straps and free floating allows for a man or a woman to be weightless, flexible and positioned in a stationary way with fluid movement that feels exhilarating for both partners.

What kind of sex swings are the best?

There is much debate on which kind of swing is the best, purely based on individual and couple preference. Some couples prefer a swing that is easy to put up and take down when they want to be a little more private than a more open couple who will permanently hang their swing in the bedroom or playroom. Some couples want more accessories, add-ons and complex swings while others enjoy simple models.

Typical models

One of the most basic and easiest models to use is the door swing. A door swing is easy to set up and even easier to take down. The door is perfect for couples who want the occasional play but haven’t graduated to the more advanced models. The door swing is also perfect for a couple who wants to be able to easily put up and take down a swing when needed.

Hanging sex swings are the most popular models as they allow for more free floating, offer the opportunity for more complex positions and are sturdy. These models can be unhooked from the ceiling but the base you will want to keep in tact for the duration you own the swing.

Freestanding swings stand just above the floor and offer both partners the opportunity to use the swing sat the same time. More complex than the door model but less complex than a full-body swing, this model is perfect for the adventurous couple who has graduated from basic to moderate play.

Sex Poses

Sex swing positions

Now that you have it and own a sex swing, how do you use it? Some of our favorite positions are described below. Just know, you don’t have to limit yourself to just these positions! To understand the verbiage, we use the term “receiver” as the person receiving penetration and the “penetrating” as the partner giving penetration during sex.

  • Upright swing position: This is a standing position where the penetrator  is standing toward the receiving partner in the swing. The receiver has lifted hips during penetration. The benefit here is the receiver can wrap his or her legs around the penetrator. The standing partner can get creative caressing the partner in the swing’s body or breasts.
  • Positioned from behind: The receiving partner lowers him or herself down, belly down on the swing. The penetrating partner can hold the receiving partner in his or her hands for intercourse.
  • Oral sex (man or woman): The receiver of oral sex can sit positioned whichever way is most comfortable for his or her partner. Whether you have a standing, door or mounted ceiling swing, the freedom to be secure feels simply amazing!
  • Receiver on top: A man or woman will lay back on the swing with the lower, upper or both supported. The partner will straddle him or her with straps or without. What we love about this position is that depending on the range of motion with the sex swing, both partners are in control of their pleasure!

Whether you use your swing in the door, on the floor or mounted on the ceiling, there is something very special about a couple looking to broaden their sexual horizon and explore the passion fueled benefits toys like sex swings have to offer!

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How To Do Doggy Style: A Simple 5 Step Beginner’s Guide

How-To Do Doggy Style: A Simple 5-Step Beginner’s Guide

Doggy style position is arguably the best sex position with a long-term or short-term partner. Not only is it easy to perform but it also provides a deeply satisfying experience for both partners. Filled with opportunities to explore the other person with your eyes and hands, doggy style is a classic sex position that’s making a big comeback. Do you want to know what hitting fire-y hot doggy style feels like? Revive your traditional routine with this easy-to-follow how to do doggy style beginner’s guide. It is ideal for people who have never done it and those switching up their everyday doggy style position.

Use this simple 5-step beginner’s guide for how to do doggy style to make the most out of the #1 sex position.

  1. Get Comfortable. There are a variety of modifications to the basic “from-behind” doggy style position. Choose what’s most comfortable for you and your partner, your mood and of course what the environment calls for. Spontaneous sex romps lend themselves well to this easy-to-perform position so don’t worry about conjuring up something complicated. Just back it up or bend over, whatever works! When it comes to doggy style just entering your partner from the rear is enough to earn you the right to say, “Woof!”
  2. Keep Talking. You never want to assume that your partner can handle this position without asking. If you have a large penis, maintaining communication throughout a doggy style sex session is the best way to avoid causing pain that can stop all of the fun. In order to make sure (for both men and women) that there is no risk of injury, encourage dirty talk. And keep it coming!
  3. Reach Out. One of the best things about how to doggy style is that your hands are almost completely free. Unless you need additional support for balance or are enjoying a good spanking … reach your hands out and play with something. Gently glide over the tips of a nipple, play with lips and other skin. Don’t miss out on the many great opportunities to grab those sexy goodies – and that includes yours too!
  4. Get Visual. You may not realize just how good the view is from your partner’s angle until you see it. For this reason, get a few stand-up mirrors to place around the bedroom or opt for fun places where mirrors are already available to do it doggy style. The visual simulations are enough to push either partner over the edge. If you cannot use mirrors to make eye contact during doggy style, take in as much as you can visually of your partner.
  5. Work the Butt. One of the most exciting parts about doing it doggy style is the butt. So don’t neglect it. Work the butt into your focus by adding lube and a gentle finger and encourage bae to play with smooth dildos. You can turn things up with spanking and if you become really comfortable there are plenty of more powerful toys you can add.

Talk to Your Partner About How To Doggy Style

Talk to Your Partner About How To Doggy Style

Let’s face it – it’s hard to beat doggy style as a sex position. In fact, few positions can compare with the deep penetration and view of your partner’s backside as you easily maneuver your body. Let this simple 5-step beginner’s guide to the dog in you serve as a starting point to the closest way to have explosive orgasms. And remember: you can have fun while you get creative. How to do doggy style isn’t a one-size-fits-all experience. There are hundreds of ways to spice things up. So, what are you waiting for? Talk to your partner about bringing the sexiest position ever back into the sack.

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5 Best Sex Positions to Make Her Orgasm

5 Best Sex Positions to Make Her Orgasm

For a male, the female orgasm can be pretty much the greatest mystery after Sasquatch or the Loch Ness Monster. Really. No, but all jokes aside, the female orgasm for a typical male can be a real conundrum. Some women are on the same page too, meaning they don’t know why they find it hard to get to the top during intercourse.

Why is that?

First and foremost, most men just simply have a hard time telling if their partner is “really there” and let’s face it, it’s kind of stupid to ask too… Secondly, men have it a lot easier since it looks as though, they are hardwired to reach climax, once they start working on it. So, what’s the difference?

Well, let’s just keep it as simple as possible: for women, it’s harder to “get there” i.e. to totally let go and to give in. They have a harder time relaxing and thus, a lot of women actually have a hard time achieving orgasm during intercourse. While they may feel that penetration and the vigorous, deep thrusting is amazing, the climax just never seems to happen or it rarely does. This is the thing that bothers most women who have a problem with reaching orgasm.

Well, we probably can’t teach you (if you’re one of those women) or your partner to relax and to totally give in to the magic of sex. However, we can help a great deal by giving you the best sexual positions for female orgasm. With these top 5 sex positions, you both will be a lot closer to get to the top – together.

THE BEST OF THE BEST

These top 5 sexual positions will ensure that your (or your partner’s) chances dramatically increase of reaching orgasm (note: while every gal likes things differently and has different preferences in bed, these 5 positions have been reported to “get the job done”). So, without further ado, here you have them:

 SHE SHOULD GET ON TOP

PULLING IT OFF: The guy is on his back, lying. The girl climbs on top with her legs on each side of the guy’s torso.

WHAT TO FOCUS ON: For the girl, it’s better to concentrate on rocking back and forth and less on moving down and up. Grinding the pelvis in a circular motion or figure-eights is also awesome

THE MAGIC: When the woman is on top, she has the upper hand – let that be speed, angles, pressure. Fortunately, this position has tons of different variations so it’s very versatile and it will take a while before it gets boring. As an added bonus, this isn’t an intense position for guys, so they might keep going longer than they would actually last, allowing to the woman more time to reach climax.

HOW TO INTRODUCE VARIETY? – Turning around and facing the guy’s feet (the Reverse Cowgirl) can give things a totally new dimension. This offers a stunning view for the guy and she has more angles to experiment with. He can also get his body up to sit up even properly providing even more angles to explore her while his member stimulates different areas of her vagina. She can lean back, that way, the penis will hit her G-spot better. Also, it’s an easy position for her to stimulate her clitoris.

GOING DOGGY

PULLING IT OFF:: Ah, the classic doggy style. Simple girl, you need to get down on all fours and make that your partner is behind you and that he can thrust away while holding on to your hips or buttocks. You can remain still or join the action with some hip action – just push back.

THE MAGIC: This position enables better stimulation for both parties. Those women who can reach their peak requiring only penetration will love doggy for its intensity and for the fact that it stimulates the G-spot directly. Those who need clit ply will also find doggy beneficial since it’s really easy to use their hand or even a toy.

HOW TO KEEP IT FRESH? – She can get down or her elbows and mix up the angles a bit. She can rub her clit with on hand or she can ask her partner to do it for her by reaching around. If she’s on the bed on her knees and hands and he’s standing beside the bed, the penetration and thrusting can be even more intense.

COITAL ALIGNMENT

PULLING IT OFF: Simply just get into missionary while you (the gal) is on her back. The guy should be on top. Once you’re done with this, you want him to get his body closer to your upper body to the point that his pelvis is only just a tad higher than it would be regularly when doing it missionary. In this position, he should be focusing more on rubbing up against that pelvis of yours rather than thrusting in and out.

COITAL ALIGNMENT

THE MAGIC: Even though the name of this sex position sounds more like something out of the medical dictionary, it’s actually a pretty awesome pose for reaching climax for most women. Experimenting with pelvis angles can allow the partners pubic bone to grind against her clit allowing for immediate stimulation which most women require to orgasm. It’s also really easy to maneuver into from traditional missionary.

WHAT ABOUT VARIETY? –  If she spreads her labia apart, her clit can get even more pronounced stimulation. Propping up her hips with a pillow can make accessing the vagina easier and lubing things up (including the clit) can add a totally new dimension to the whole picture.

STRADDLING SIDEWAYS

PULLING IT OFF: A bit more complicated to make it happen, but in the great scheme of things, it’s absolutely worth it! It’s advisable to start fully clothed at first so you and your partner may have a better idea of where your legs and hands should be going before trying it with “live cartridge”.

That being said, the guy should have his feet on the ground and on his back, while the gal should get on top of him with one leg between the guy’s legs. Then, the girls should insert the penis into her vagina after she lowers herself to a comfortable position, on her knees.

THE MAGIC: this pose enables both partners to grind as they like, and she is the one who’s in charge of speed and pressure.

HOW TO KEEP IT FRESH? – Well, let’s just say that mastering it may keep it pretty fresh for a long time. However, by positioning her legs either closer to his or farther apart can give new dimensions to it.

THE BRIDGE

PULLING IT OFF: Start in the good old missionary then with knees and ankles spread wide, the guy should attempt to sit up, while the girl should stay on her back with feet on the bed flat. She should also arch the hips a bit, resembling a bridge position.

THE MAGIC: The Bridge makes deep stimulation easy and it’s also pretty to hit her G-spot this way.

HOW TO ADD VARIETY? – By changing angles, he can get either lower or higher, while she can experiment with hip angles and can either put her legs on his shoulders or get them around the guy’s torso.

THE TAKEAWAY

Well, after all these tips and invaluable info, all you need to do is to get your freak on and have fun!

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